I've been on a particular music message board for nearly a decade. I've been an active member with easily over 10,000 posts. This week the url began leading to a page that couldn't be found. So now I'm wondering if it's been shut down forever.
Message boards were one of the first forms of social media, long before Facebook or My Space. These boards create a strong sense of community. So much so that in the early days of boarding I would begin to worry about other members who'd stop posting. Had something bad happened to them? They'd become cyber friends.
Something happened with the advent of modern day social media though. For one, my social circle is much bigger than it ever was on the message board. It's nearly impossible to account for everyones status day by day. Has this hardened me, made me more insensitive? Or have I finally compartmentalized cyber and real relationships, knowing that I simply cannot invest personal, heartfelt concern over thousands of people?
I love when cyber relationships turn real. Meeting friends from Facebook in person is fun and leads quickly to real life friendship.
The music message board was based out of Chicago with members from all over the world. Over the years I'd met a handful of them. One came to Cleveland on business and we coordinated a meet up at a bar. Another time I boarded a few of them who were on a cross country baseball stadium trek. I even rendezvoused with a member in Paris, france.
If the message board had gone dead years ago I'd be angst-ridden. But the board, like many I assume, has watched membership and participation decline as people concentrate their online social life to larger communities like Facebook and Twitter.
Still, I'm wondering if my music message board has become Atlantis or Pompey. Or maybe it just crashed and the programmers are trying to repair it. To be honest, I'm still a bit anxious.
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